[lukethehammer]

Over the years with my wife, I have caught her on a couple rare occassions actually showing off to a voyeur. One time was on a video. I didn't realize when we were making it that someone was watching AND that she was performing for him. Another occasion I caught her but just kept my mouth shut. We were young and I heard two of my friends outside my windo (I recognized their voices) while my wife was riding me. The curtains were cracked open a little. It was enough to get a full view of the action. As soon as I heard their voices, my wife started moving in ways she never did before. She started doing sexier moves than usual and looked almost like she was posing for pictures. I just sat back and enjoyed. Later, without identifying the incident specifically, I asked her if she ever knew someone was watching while we were having sex. To this day,she denies she has ever known someone was watching while we were going at it.

I have caught her performing on more than one occasion. My question to women is why does she not admit it? Is there a way I can get her to admit? I think it would make our sex more fun if we could go over old stories. AND, I want to know the experiences that I didn't catch her in.

[Thinker]

Deny-ability is such an ally. You might pressure her to overtly perform in front of friends if she admits it. This way she is still in control. Otherwise when your friends are over, she will not expect you to ask her to do a strip tease for everyone.

[DangerousDi]

Could be lots of reasons, like one their background, religion, their size of their body if they aren't proud. List goes on and on.

[lukethehammer]

Been a while since I posted.

I caught her again. This time we were staying in a hotel and just came back from a nearby bar. She was pretty drunk and fell asleep. While she was sleeping, I opened the curtains and turned on the light. Then I started licking her nipples which woke her up and got her excited. I put her on top and kept watching her face. I caught a look on her face of realization that the curtains were open. I had her facing the window while she was riding me. About 10 minutes into our session, I see a look in her eyes as if she just caught someone watching. Next thing I know, she leans back, starts grabbing her tits, and playing with her nipples. While enjoying this whole episode and trying not the come too soon, I catch her taking glimpses out the window while she continues to rub her tits then put her hands in her hair. I realized she was straight up performing!! She had caught someone watching and was putting on a show! I just lay there enjoying her sexiness and let it all happen without acknowledging she was fucking for another guy.

It's amazing to me that some women will do this and still wholeheartedly deny they ever knew someone caught them having sex.

But for this event, I just pretended like I never noticed she was showing off. Not acknowledging these wild escapades of hers seems to work for our relationship and keeps our sex life very fun. It reminds me of a close friend of mine (a very hot woman) who once told me she sometimes doesn't wear underwear and that if I ever noticed, not to say anything to her about it.

[AnonAnon]

My wife is an inveterate exhibitionist who will happily walk around in a mall with a wrap dress neckline caught on a bare nipple or go shopping at a smaller venue braless under a mesh coverup with her tits on display. When we were dating, I once bought her a leather jacket and she gave me a sexy memory in return by trying it on topless right in the store calmly letting the salesman fit it to her. The top she had on was a flimsy wrap that wasn’t really impeding the fit but she wanted to wear the jacket without anything underneath and wanted to see how it felt without bothering with a dressing room. There were a few people in the store checking her tits out as she stood in front a large mirror but she was totally comfortable topless.

She’s only once admitted to being an exhibitionist and she does indulge my wanting to enjoy past memories by sometimes recreating them. When we were dating, she once wore a pair of very see through crochet pants pantyless to a packed show where I am sure thousands of people got a good look at her ass and landing strip through the pants. A year ago the same show as back in town and my wife bought tickets and wore the same outfit to it, even slipping a very visible credit card into the pants over her bare ass to make it even more obvious what was on offer.

[AnonAnon]

One of the things I’ve noticed about my wife is that her exhibitionism is slightly planned but the most daring parts are very spur of the moment. She sometimes models for a friend of hers that has a small fashion label and friend often talks her into marketing images for her emails with sheer clothing or even partial nudity. At a small show at her boutique last year the friend asked her to models sheer maxi dress with a wide belt that bunched the fabric for modest and my wife decided to go for the “catwalk” totally naked under the dress. The bunched fabric allowed for some privacy but her landing strip was clearly visible and ass lovers got a fill of her wares. When it was time to mix for a bit, she came out wearing a pair of fitted shorts but still braless under the sheer dress for some amazing close-up bedroom views of her tits for the guests. There was no doubt she was buzzed from being that naked that close to strangers. When I asked her about it later, she shrugged it off by saying all the invitees were on the mailing list and had seen her nude many times. Not quite the same as going nearly naked on a catwalk in front of a small crowd, but I didn’t argue the point.

[AnonAnon]

One likely reason my wife is coy about her exhibitionism is that while she feels sexy and wants to be seen as sexy by me she also gets a kick out of being seen as sexy by others but isn’t always comfortable admitting to this last thing. Perhaps it feels a bit unfaithful? It’s the same for me. I enjoy a confident woman with sex appeal, but also get a kick out of my wife being seen by others but am not totally comfortable admitting to it. It could be interpreted as me pimping her out. It’s not something we talk about but the passing years have resulted in more candor and less mystery.

[AnonAnon]

My wife and I go to smallish Halloween party some friends of ours host each year. It’s meant to be a sexy party and most of the women take the opportunity to wear as little as possible. A few years ago my wife expressed a desire to go topless the following year with me walking in behind her covering her tits with my hands. I figured she was buzzed from her exhibitionism and would get over it, but she didn’t and the following year that is precisely what we did, down to my walking in with my hands grabbing her tits and then letting them go in full view of the other guests. For the next half and hour my wife enjoyed posing topless with the other guests, many of whom recreated my tits grabbing move with my wife admitting that she pressed the hands of the more reluctant guys on to her tits as they posed so they got the full treatment. At about the half and hour mark the host brought out one of his shirts for her to put on. It was a very see through white office shirt that she wore knotted and unbuttoned for a very sexy look. It was a great evening. A sort of dream outfit for her and the obvious benefits for me. It came up a few days later and she brushed off the entire experience by saying it wasn’t anything extreme, just her being herself.