[gayle501]

My wife is 43 and a volunteer accountant at the local YMCA.

She loves to show off (low cut blouses mostly, with lacy black bra). She has to be careful not to draw attention. She loves the attention she gets from the teen males there and purposely bends down when they are around and flirts (carefully) while she is there. She gets quite aroused from this and when she tells me the stories I do as well. It makes for extremely great sex as I imagine her with some teen boy and she is imagining it too. It's a strange fetish, but somehow extremely erotic.

[Gina]

I'm an exhibitionist and love it. I too love the thrill of showing off, especially the subtle little "accidental" peeks that I give others when they least expect it such as what you described your wife does. However, I think there is no place whatsoever when children should be involved in the thrill. That's just creepy. Dare to bare and share all you want in the right setting, but my humble opinion is the local YMCA is not that place.

[AnonAnon]

As we have aged, our environments of choice have aged with us and it seems natural and proper. My wife actually shows more now than she did when we were younger, because the audience is more mature.

It seems strange, but a mature audience can enjoy more without getting overly excited and spoiling the fun. Yesterday we went to lunch with some old friends of ours and my wife wore a very flimsy white tee without a bra under it. The tee had a neat cut to it, but left nothing to the imagination when it came to her breasts and nipples and it wasn't meant to. She looked great in it and I'm sure both the guy and girl we were with enjoyed looking at her. On one of our early dates, I was a little taken aback when I caught a glimpse of her pubic hair through a short button-front dress. When I mentioned it to her, she asked if I didn't like the look of it. I did and I took her point. I enjoyed her outfit so why wouldn't someone else.

[Imtzinu2]

We must never let the woman who thinks the YMCA is the wrong place for activity like this have the final say. She is clueless about males obviously so I hope if a mother, she's only a mother of girls. I've been horny all my life and as a young man to have a woman in her 40s generously display her bosom would have been a wonderful treat that would have probably made me exhaust myself at home as I sprayed my spunk over that wonderful image at the Y. I ask the woman if seeing other animals teets such as cows will also corrupt children? How about pigs at the fair during a 4H exhibit? They almost look human if you've seen them? Do they also corrupt children? Are you ashamed of your OWN breasts? Are human female breasts dirty to see, but every other animal on the planet's are okay and won't corrupt children?

I'm a member of the Y and thank the woman on behalf of all young men for letting young men peek and making their day and shame on the prude for even suggesting there's a wrong place for women's breasts NOT to be displayed if the woman chooses. I'm thinking even church would be a good place so men wouldn't nod off?

[Imtzinu2]

Thank you. You and your wife are beautiful people for sharing her with the rest of us

[Gina]

Imtzinu2,

You are exactly the reason I made the comments that I did. There is a right place and a wrong place to be an exhibitionist. If you think that the YMCA, where children are around, is the appropriate place. Then you my friend, are exactly the person that I fear my son, or daughter never meets. But then again, if you are the type of person who must be told that there is a wrong and right place, I doubt you would ever understand anyway. Some people really are just born stupid and unfortunately are forced to let their penis's do all their thinking. In your case, being born stupid and having a small penis has really left you at a disadvantage.

[Gina]

ooops, so sorry. I forgot to answer your questions regarding farm animals. No, I don't have a problem with my kids seeing the teets and other parts of farm animals. You see, apparently unlike you, we in my family do not view farm animals as sex objects. Just wanted to clear that up for you.

A

[Thinker]

I agree with Gina. There is a right time and wrong time for exhibitionism. When kids are around, it should not be done. Sexual "games" need to be reserved for adults. When an adult thinks it is OK to include kids, it scares me.

On the other hand, nudism in and of itself can be done in front of kids. The difference is you are just being yourself and not being an exhibitionist. No sexual overtones involved.

[Gina]

Thinker,

Thanks for the support. Although Nudism is probably not something I would participate with including my children, I have no problem with others doing it in the proper setting. The difference between some woman working the desk at the YMCA exposing herself and a naked parent at a nudist colony is simply the element of choice of the environment. I don't care if a hormone laden teen would love the glimpse of boobs at the Y or not, the whole point that the idiot is missing is that as an adult, working at the Y, you are expected to behave in an appropriate manner. It really is that simple. I love showing off, but I only choose to do so in the right places. Wearing a top in a bar full of adults that may allow for an accidental nip slip is a whole lot different than doing the same at a place where parents send their kids.

Honestly, If you have to explain this to somebody, then you really have to wonder what else they feel is acceptable behavior around children in their lives regarding sexual behavior. It really is quite frightening.

[Fish]

Imtzinu2- so let me understand your line of thought. If you had a teenage daughter who frequented the Y, you would be fine and dandy with any adult male employee of the center showing your kid his junk? after all, pigs got dicks too, right? No big deal right?

something tells me this Imtzinu2 fellow only maintains a Y membership for reasons that will eventually get him an ankle bracelet and restrictions as to where he can live in relation to schools.

[Imtzinu2]

I'm been away from this thread for awhile. So sad how people can't disagree with each other without throwing out insults like my penis size which no one here would have a clue about.

As far as the comment by the man who wants to know if some perv is showing my teen daughter his junk in public, there's a big distinction between perv behavior and natural nudity? If you don't know the difference, I don't think I would be able to educate you here. Nudists get the distinction. Men, women and children are exposed to each other as the human form being a natural thing. Some of you obviously think its dirty. I was making the point also which most of the flamers missed how odd it is you consider genitals on other animals normal to view anywhere and for your children to see, but find the human body dirty which must be covered and certainly if seen by children will pervert them? The obvious point which my critics missed is that the human body isn't dirty in itself and if a woman bends over for a young man to see her breasts it won't hurt him in any way. Men who put their "junk" out as the one man said are getting their sexual jollies from their behavior and from what I know the the subject masturbate as well while showing is wrong and criminal. There's also the factor between men and women which I suppose many won't agree with? A woman exposing herself to a boy isn't the same as a man to a girl? If you don't agree...fine. My posts are my opinion. Respect them or not, but no need to attack my physical appearance or my own sexuality which only proves your own ignorance because obviously you know zero about either nor can you. Simply disagree and state why. It will show an ounce of class which was more then was demonstrated with the last posts?