[gayle501]

My wife loves to flirt and show off in front of me. She's in her 40's now, but great figure (some would say big hips, but they look nice on her). When she flirts at the bar or at a restaurant, we both get so aroused and that night makes for great sex. I keep talking to her about a swap or me watching...and she is reluctant to take the first step...but I can see that I'm close to talking her into it. The idea of having sex with her afterwards is extremely hot to me and when I fantasize about it, I immediately get aroused.

[jccpl]

Don't give up it will happen.

[Superone]

Keep it up, it will happen, just be certain it is the right guy. I think we started much younger than you, in early 30's.

[redback]

It sounds like your about to have the most erotic of your life. At least I hope that's how it turn out. Keep up the communication and the flirting and it will happen. And when it does, please keep us informed.

[AnonAnon]

I had this happen with a girlfriend when I was very young. Some aspects of it were edgy and provocative and fun that way, but it wasn't for me and I was happy to go back to the more typical relationship soon after. I never think about it.

[Thinker]

Just keep inviting couples over and have fun teasing with them. At some point the flirtation may get bolder. One step at a time.