[Sonia]

Has anyone taken their husbands to amateur night ...I have ..and wow!

[Thinker]

What's the story behind this one? We would like to hear all about it.

[Sonia]

Having been recently married and living in the United States for a few years, we lived a few hours away from Atlanta. We've done the night club scenes and concerts, but one evening we drove passed a strip club that we saw from the highway and after a short discussion of what sort of entertainment happens, we decided to visit.

They advertised amateur night from the highway sign and I believe this is the reason my husband was so convincing in wanting me to go, but fortunately it was on a different night. My husband used to be in the military and we discussed more of what to expect inside before entering. We had our own booth away from the stage. Though not close it enabled me to see much of the audience and stage from a distance and what interest me the most was the interaction between the men and the dancer. It was exciting to see how she would entice them and receive tips as she moved about the stage. The girls were very beautiful, music very complimentary to the dancing, and completely nude which my husband mentioned varies from state to state. I know he was getting excited as well as I. There's something about a beautiful woman, but I believe it was more about the attention she was receiving that excited me the most.

We had fun ...very much different than the night club scenes. Even when I would go without any panties on, dance the evening and feel a bit voyeurism, but the strip club was another level. We enjoyed our night and the conversation and pillow talk about amateur night would continue for months ...his birthday was approaching.

[Sonia]

As we made love ...he would whisper so lightly into my ears ...his desires and fantasies of me. Our pillow talk would intensify. Especially, when he was away on business ... our instant messaging in the evenings would take it to a higher level. He just knew how best to thread a needle well and touch my inner feelings of a woman...he was playing with my desires. These months will lead up to an incredible adventure and only this one event ...amateur night would happen.

Posted elsewhere (i.e., in Fiction Erotic Stories) and in a series of our instant messages ...leading up to amateur night (some posted others not).

Nearly ten years later and till this day ...that night is a far as we would experience ...together each others desires ...a walk to the wild side ...and back

[PB4U]

The story about Atlanta reminded me of the time we were in Atlanta staying with a pretty woman and her boyfriend. The girl told me about how she had gone to a club on amateur nite and that she danced and stripped completely naked for her BFs birthday along with a number of his friends.

My BF suggested we go to the club but he didn't tell me about it being amateur nite or how the other girl had danced there for her BF and his friends. We got all dressed up to go out and I borrowed a really fine designer blouse that was a wrap around in the front. I decided for some reason not to wear a bra but you really could not tell I wasn't wearing one plus I wore a large scarf tucked into the front of the top. We got to the club with a number of friends and had a few strong drinks. At some point I heard an announcement asking females to sign up to dance. My BF knew that just my seeing some of the other women dancing would make me want to do the same. Without telling him, I signed up to dance and after a while my name was called.

At that point my BF acted kinda shocked and sort of begged me to consider what I was about to do. Although I am not at all modest, I had really never danced in a strip club, much less completely nude. He really asked me not to dance and even had the other girl with us to talk to me about dancing. After a while I finally agreed with him and decided not to dance. After a few more drinks, as we sat around a table, he asked me if I was really going to dance knowing that I would wind up on stage completely naked and especially since we were with some others we knew well. I of course acted casual about it which tends to excite him even more. With that he discreetly undid the front of my blouse and slowly began to open it. Finally after I just sat there, he had my blouse completely open with my breasts and nipples completely exposed. It actually was more exciting to us as neither of us find strippers to be very exciting, since you really know what to expect. We just sat there with my blouse blouse literally off my of me with nipples exposed. I don't know but the was really exciting the way it happened.

[Thinker]

What did your friends do that saw your blouse open? Other women join you? Did the men touch or kiss? I am sure your made them erect. I would have a hard-on if I saw a friend's blouse open.

[PB4U]

Hi Thinker, actually believe it or not, no one seemed to even pay attention to me much. Also I was looking around so I really don't know who was paying attention. The room was kinda dark but still easily visible. Sometimes it kinda bugs me that no one tends to do or say much but I think it's because men just don't know what to say or how to act. Surprisingly, it's usually another woman that seems to react at all. Some have gotten a bit angry and have actually said something to me or my BF. I think that I tend to act really natural and comfortable about how I look is what causes no one to react much at all.

Another time we went to Atlanta for Halloween and for some reason I decided to wear something really a bit wild looking. I wore black tuxedo pants, black heels with hose, a cumberbund, white mens t- shirt, bow tie and a tux jacket. The first place we went to must have been a little early as it was kinda lifeless. After sitting for a while we decided to go to a late nite place where lots of the people were bar or club people. It was much better so after a number of drinks, I removed the jacket and went to the rest room. I took a pair of scissors and began to cut up the t shirt but at first nothing showed. As the night went on and I drank more, we again went to the restroom and finally the t shirt was shredded open. MY BF asked me if I realized that with anymore cutting one or both nipples would be uncovered, but I still cut more away. We danced and socialized and finally I cut away even more of the t shirt and even cut off the sides of my thong but leaving on my sheer black hose, which kinda made me look almost bottomless. I went back out and danced with a few guys and talked to others at the bar. Suprisingly once again, they all seemed to act oblivious to how nearly naked I really was as literally both breasts and nipples were exposed and I had on no underwear. All I can say is we were both really excited and he still loves to tease me about how really daring I was that night. Thinking back I think I was reacting to a really great looking woman my bf was talking to who was wearing only a layer of totally sheer suran wrap off of onne shoulder thus lboob totally exposed abviously noticeable. I tend to get really jealous and envious when I see another woman looking really sexy and in turn react to make myself feel more sexy. I hope this makes sense.

[AnonAnon]

PB4U, we have the same experience as you. My wife wears see through tops without a bra often and almost anywhere. Sometimes they are loose and tend to show more of the breast and less of the nipple, but often they are clingy stretch material through which you can clearly see her nipples, which are usually at least partially erect, and usually cast a very obvious shadow. It is a very blatantly sexy look and she carries it off very comfortably. I've never met anyone as comfortable as she is with people staring at her nipples while she carries on a perfectly normal conversation with them.

Some guys will tend to compliment her on her dresses, and very rarely women, but most people tend to ignore it.

[PB4U]

Hi Anon, your post really sounded kinda familiar to me as its not the usual to meet anyone even close to the way we tend to get. Until I met my BF I had never dreamed of wearing anything revealing much less see thru and especially braless. I guess because he did fashion photography way back and had a GF who was tall thin and very small up top, I guess I became envious of her dress style as she always wore something really sheer, no bra and anywhere without a thought. She always said she thought she was too small for anyone to even notice as she had tiny very little pink nipples.

As a result it has affected me to want to look and feel sexier looking and since he loves breasts, its what I use. He has bought me many nice fine designer silk blouses, some with patterns and some just about invisible. Although I don't really like to dress up, after a few drinks I generally do. My favorite look is to wear one of his freshly starched and laundered button down shirts (with a thin simple bra). After a number of drinks I tend to start undoing a few buttons until he will remind me of how my bra is showing under the shirt. This only prompts me to just remove the bra while sitting at a bar or club. I can do it rather simply and discreetly. As we sit there I know that from his side he can see all the way down my blouse. At some point the blouse will be come undone to the waist and be wide open hiding nothing. His favorite thing is to tease me about how I may look just to see how I respond, which is usally simple and casually. This only excites him more. Many guys have come over to talk to us as we know that they cannot help but easily see my entire exposed breast, yeat as I said no one seems to say much at all. Sometimes another woman will make a nasty remark but most are complementary. We thing that most women like the look but are either to shy or insecure about dressing that way.

I am curious as to how you lady must look. I think I get away with it cause I have the tall natural looks of a high fashion model so the look comes across as proper, like on a runway.

I would love to here some spstories as it fun to compare notes. Although all of nites mamay seem kinda swe have never met anyo

[AnonAnon]

PB, my wife is 5-9 and a small B with nice legs, broad shoulders and a small behind so not quite supermodel-like, which I think of as closer to 6-0. However, she's my favorite type. I don't like looks that stick out immediately. I like women to be a bit more dark horse-ish, surprise people a bit, have some mystery or a few layers to them. I also like stereotype-busting contrasts. Someone whom you're having a serious conversation with who might remove a boring jacket to reveal a stylish see through blouse worn sans bra. I didn't really have to do anything to make her this way. She's just an exhibitionist at heart and very comfortable with her body.

Like your BF's ex, my wife will wear see through tops anywhere, including while visiting family. That is her signature and if you know her you've seen her nipples. She'll even wear see through tops to work dinners and, sometimes, even to work. She works in a studio so it is more acceptable. I've picked her up from her studio once when she was wearing drawstring linen pants sans underwear leaving very little to the imagination. In the early days I used to get uncomfortable if she showed up a dinner with my friends wearing a see through tee that stretched across her nipples, but you quickly get used to being able to get away with a lot.

Once in while, we'll go somewhere where we're new and she'll wear something really flimsy like a long thin dress with nothing on underneath, clinging to every detail of her body. Everyone will be trying to get a view of her nipples and areolae . . . and succeeding. Some might register a bit of shock, which makes it even more enjoyable, that she doesn't have panties on either. If she really wants to make a statement, she has a few linen pants that allow her pubic hair shadow to show through and she wears them with long overcoats that part just enough to frame the front of the pants, emphasizing their flimsiness. I've actually hear one of our friends gasp when she first noticed!

[PB4U]

Anon, thanks for the nice reply. I am also tall right at six feet. I am still rather trim and kinda athletic with smallish 34B boobs. According to my BF, I must be just what he likes as he is really the ultimate boob lover. For some reason, except for once, I have never gone out without panties. My BF is always complaining as I like nice fitting jeans or slacks which tend to always show my panty lines.

I think I am different that your wife as until I met my BF, I had never really gone out without wearing a bra, although I have always worn one that is little more than just a thin cover up. I really dislike padded push up bras. When I have worn something braless, you really can't tell as I tend to look bigger and really firm still.

Until I started seeing my BF, I hated wearing anything really dressy, but now knowing my BF really likes nice silky sheer blouses, I seem to wind up wearing one whenever we go anyplace that requires anything fine looking. I can still remember the first nite we went out for NY Eve and for some unknown reason I purchased some nice slacks, a fine jacket and a really sheer thin black silk blouse. I remember putting on one of my simple thin elastic white bras under the blouse which tended to show thru kinda easily. My mom about flipped out when she saw me and insisted I put on one of her thick white cotton camisoles, which I did but angrily. As we arrived at the party, I told my BF that I was really pissed and that I just was going to take off the bra an cami even though the blouse was really obviously sheer. I even left my jacket in the car and in we went. I remember seeing my sister who was in total shock when she saw just how obviously my nipples could be seen thru the black silk. My BF of course loved how daring I was plus I just didn't care how exposed I might have looked.

[Thinker]

I would say PB4U and Anon's wife have us guys' number. Sometimes an almost see-through top is better than one that is so obvious. Guys will get more satisfaction if they have to work for it. Maybe it brings out the hunter in us going for our visual prey!

[AnonAnon]

Thinker, every guy is a little different so it is nice to have a wife that enjoys tailoring her wardrobe to what I enjoy. When I first met my wife, she wore a large selection of daring clothing including very low-cut jeans, low-cut tops, shot dresses and some see through tops. She soon realized the see through tops were my favorite and started to push my boundaries with them, wearing them everywhere, even when close interactions were going to take place with people I knew. The part I liked best was that she owned her look right from the start and never pretended like it was something she was doing on my account.

One of the first times she wore something very revealing to a dinner with friends, she was clearly coming from a different direction on her own and not getting there with me. The dinner was at a friend's parents' home, so some of the parents were around, too. She arrived in a nice pair of pants and a very slightly loose flimsy beige cotton top with buttons till her nipples line, all undone, the top looking just slightly unironed. Subdued makeup and hair tied back neatly. Having the buttons undone made the top just loose enough that it didn't cling, but it would often tighten over her nipples as she moved and when it did, it was quite see through. She was getting stares from everyone there, including the parents and she didn't once do anything self-conscious. At some point in the party, I complimented her on her beautiful nipples and she said, "Yeah, it was time to introduce them to your friends!" Just like that.

[AnonAnon]

PB4U, you're welcome. Loved that story of the camisole.

My wife's mother is pretty laid back and doesn't mind what my wife does or doesn't wear. We have, however, on a few occasions gotten a raised eyebrow from her. The last time it happened, we were dropping our dog off at her place before heading to dinner at a hotel bar with some friends on our way out of town for the weekend. The reason for it was that my wife was wearing a dark gold dress that had the widest neck you could imagine and was probably designed for a slightly larger-breasted woman so it was loose. There was a tie, like what you would fine behind a halter neck, but coming forward to hang in between her breasts. The tie made the dress look tasteful without doing anything for coverage. The way the dress fit my wife it sort of left her breasts free to be viewed from every angle except the front. It was obvious a lot of people would be viewing my wife's breasts and nipples that day. I was looking forward to it, because I always enjoy her showing in front of friends and it adds some buzz to the evening. What I didn't expect was how many strangers would stop by to compliment her. To watch her gracefully accept a compliment from a stranger clearly compelled by the fact that he could see her breasts and barely able to keep his eyes off them was a delight and, as she would turn to smile at the complimenter, the view to us would improve!

[Superone]

Many years back in Myrtle Beach one night at a bar theat was having bikini contests for different age groups, my wife was 43 at time, we are there with 3 other coupes. Comes to seior group over 40, my wife feeling no pain getting egged on by all at table took the dare and went up on stage. She had shorts on , tanga pantie and shelf bra. Told the MC, he sais that will work. My wife drops shorts and takes her t-shirt off. Here is a 43 years old real looker with super body standing on stage with 4 other women that were not appealing but good sports. Wife won hands down (50 bucks). Everybody gheering, she is feling no pain, her nipples showing, Everybody yelling lets see more. She slides her thumbs in her panties and pulls them down a bit exposing her shaved pussy and plling them back up. I about shit. Everybody yelling take them off, MC says that is against policy to wife. Tells her she can show tits only and she unsnaps bra and drops it now prancing around small stage. She stope and quickly steps out of her panties showing all and very quicky bouncer comes and drags her off stage to back. 10 minutes later she not out, I get up and go back and find her pinned against wall by bouncer feeling her up and fingering her and she is trying to get away. I say what the hell is going on and he turns and leaves, she gets clothes back on and now crying (sobered up quickly) and wants to get out of the place. We get friends and all leave. Now she is so embarrased with friends and they are trying to console her. She finally was herself after a couple days.

[AnonAnon]

Superone, that's a really negative experience and a poor turn to what should have been a great memory.

We have not experienced anything close. The only unpleasant experience was at a very crowded bash to which my wife had worn a backless top that was showing some of her breasts from the side. A guy talking to her kept putting his hand on her back and brushing her breast with an extended thumb. My wife put up with it for a bit, but then called him out on it. He acted surprised and made out like she was crazy. Just to get to her, he pulled at the knot on her backless top, but she'd been smart enough to put a double knot in it and it remained in place. I wasn't close by when this happened, but arrived just as the knot-pulling was talking place. I told the guy to get out of the house and he was smart enough to take the suggestion up quickly. I never saw him in that crowd again.

[PB4U]

Superone and Anon, thanks for all the great replies you wrote. I think my BF knows exactly how your wife felt the night she showed off so much and then felt a bit embarrassed about herself. That's exactly how my BF kinda felt the night he talked me out of dancing on amateur nite at the strip club in Atlanta. Strangely, then he will turn around and feel comfortable when I wind up showing off really blatantly as I did that night. He likes for it to look as if it were all my doings and not influenced by him at all; therefore he really does not like strip clubs or nude beaches as he says you know exactly what to expect there.

Anon, your lady sounds as if she has lots of confidence about her looks and I can tell that like my BF, you really appreciate it. I have only on a few occasions actually gone out wearing something really exposing but over the course of the night, after a few stiff drinks, it will become super exciting to gradually show off more and more. My BF loves how daring and unembarrassed I really am. Even when I was younger I never had any shyness or embarrassment about myself. Now it all just makes me feel more feminine and sexy looking and not to attract anyone, but just for how it makes us both feel.

Actually until I started seeing my BF I had never seen or dreamed of a woman wearing something that actually allowed complete and obvious exposure of her nipples.

Thanks for the great posts and I hope to hear more............P

[AnonAnon]

PB4U, I've dated a few women that liked to wear tops that showed their nipples, but my wife is the first one that has it as a signature style rather than an occasional thing. Once in a while, I get the impression that we get invitations just because people want to see her do her thing.

One of her more risque pieces is a pair of see through stretch pants. They're a tight weave and skin-colored, but don't leave much to the imagination. Wearing them with panties would look too obvious, so my wife always wears them without. She usually trims down her landing strip so it isn't so dark, but it is still pretty obvious under a narrow seam that runs down the front of the pants. While the pants aren't as see through as her many nipple-displaying tops, showing pubic hair is such a taboo thing that I love it when she does it.

The last time she wore them was to a stand-up comedy show. As it happened, there was a mechanical problem with her seat. I offered to let her sit in mine till it was fixed by the facilities guys, but she didn't take me up on it. After a few seconds I realized the reason. Her standing up between the rows of seats put her crotch in clear view of everyone behind us and she'd decided she'd allow them to soak up the view. It took nearly twenty minutes to get the seat sorted out, during which time a few dozen people had gained detailed knowledge of my wife's grooming preferences. The guy fixing the seat probably got the best view from not much more than a foot away. Could be he took his time with the fix.

[PB4U]

Anon, I kinda know what you wrote as I think all our friends aren't surprised by anything I may do. Honestly I don't know why I wind up looking like I do. I think it's cause I know my BF loves for me to look this way, and because of seeing his first GF a few years ago one night. She was really very pretty, tall, blond, and a model. She is exactly how you can picture her. She was tall with very natural looks and really small boobs. I can remember meeting her one night in a late night bar where we sat with them at a table. I can remember looking at my date that night and neither of us could really believe what we saw. She had on a black silk blouse unbuttoned almost to the waist and completely see thru, thus making it really easy to see her very small, tiny little pink nipples. I had never imagined much less ever seen another woman wearing something so exposing.

Anyway, after my BF and I started dating he told me that she almost always wore blouses like that at night and he said that she felt that because she was so small that no one would even waste their time to look at her. The influence of my BFs love of that look and seeing a fashionable woman wearing a top that exposed her nipples has had an effect on me now as I can still visualize how she looked that night and just how really sexy and feminine looking she was. I wrote about the first time I actually went out on NY Eve wearing a really fine blouse that was totally see thru and how it made me feel that night.

He is always telling me how good my breasts look and how really exciting it is to see me be so daring about how I look. All I can say is that it really makes me feel really sexy looking and really feminine looking. Also I just don't know why men seem to act like they just don't notice me. ......P

[AnonAnon]

PB, I think smaller-breasted women can definitely get away with showing more nipple. I think of it as the equivalent of cleavage of a larger woman. My wife uses nipple show in a lot of her dresses. Showing through an opaque top almost all the time, but actual nipple visibility quite often as well.

She does get compliments on her outfits, but not that many. The best way to assess if you're making an impact or not is in public with strangers around. If they're staring, they're admiring. People who know you won't stare and it is hard to figure out if they've even noticed.

On one of our first dates, I invited my wife out to a teahouse. The teahouse tended to turn itself very dark at night and encourage intimate pairing across a bunch of small bars. So, you might sit across a corner from your date and there might be one other couple at the same bartop. The person making the tea would be inside the bar square. When I picked up my date, she had on a dark wrap over dark blue jeans. When we got to the teahouse and settled in, she took the wrap off and hung it on the chair. What she had on underneath was basically lingerie. Flimsy doesn't even begin to describe it. I hadn't seen her naked yet, so it was the first time I was getting a glimpse of, essentially, everything. There was an embroidery pattern on the top, but it was much smaller than her nipples and it did nothing to hide her breasts. What I saw was her naked with just enough concealment that it wasn't visible from across the room, just to people close by. The guy across from us at the same bartop didn't waste too much of the view either. I was caught off guard, but reacted normally enough that my wife told me later that she had no idea what I was thinking. My own reaction wasn't to get turned on. I kind of noted it as something I felt very attracted to, but was determined to make a good impression on the early date. It wasn't until I got home and recalled the view and how she looked as she held the tea cup with both hands and moved around that I realized how awesome it was!

[AnonAnon]

PB, another story comes to mind. My wife and I were discussing compliments and she wanted to demonstrate how uncomfortable people were with mentioning exposure while talking to the person doing the showing. We were at a mall a few days later and she was wearing a wrap top that was a dark beige. No bra. Through the top you could see some nipple shadow, but the effect was subtle. No way would anyone comment on it. She then stood in line at a chocolate store, had her top loose to where it gapped a lot, then bent down to get something out of her bag and angled until the top caught on her erect nipple and stayed open. Imagine the scene. It was late, so adults lined up to get chocolate. Some talking to her, some standing around within sight of her. Nobody said anything at all. She got all the way through the line, bought her chocolate from a guy, also tongue-tied, and sat down at a table to eat it. She then tightened up her top by herself.

I once saw a girl behind the counter at a salad store who had left her shirt open by mistake and had on a loose apron. You could see her bra and through it a lot of her chest. Probably nipples as well. I saw her work for over 20 min before a co-worker pointed it out. Even in that clearly accidental situation, people were reluctant.

[PB4U]

Anon, I agree with you that smaller built women tend to look somewhat better than a busty woman when wearing something really revealing. Just look at fashion models as some of them actually wear little or nothing as a top and it actually looks perfectly normal looking. I may have told you but I am only a smallish 34B but really very round and firm with no sag or jiggle; therefore I tend to look fine without any bra on. My BF is always telling me that I tend to look bigger and better without a bra, but I really never gave it a thought.

Just like the date you had with your wife at first, I can remember the first nite I was sort of with my BF. I met him at the gym and can remember how he always was trying to get a glimpse down my blouse. I almost always wore nice jeans with a simple button down cotton shirt which was always unbuttoned just below my bra. I always wore simple mostly elastic bras that did little more than just cover me but nothing really could be seen. One night my then BF and I went to a party at my now BFs place and I can't tell you why, but I went upstairs with him and asked him if I could put on one of his nice freshly pressed cotton button down shirts. He had never seen me near naked at that time. I turned my back to him and undid my shirt and again for no known reason, I had decided not to wear a bra. He could not take his eyes off me and tried really hard to get a look at my bare breasts, but I kept my back to him and put on his shirt which I left almost unbuttoned. After that night I started seeing him and very soon was the NY Eve I wrote about when I wore a totally see thru black silk blouse.

As I said he is always telling me how great he thinks my boobs look, especially my nipples which he really loves. They are a bit large and dark and can really contrast against my untanned chest, which really tends to enhance their looks. Also kinda like you said, I do get a few comments, buts mostly from other females who like the look but either don't nerves or looks to wear something so exposing. At times I have had some nasty remarks well.

[PB4U]

Hi, I like all that I have read and I am just glad to know that I am not the only person who my be demented or something. I also agree with wearing certain things at the right time being more affective. Going topless at a nude beach is honestly almost sexless in most cases, yet just seeing a hint of nipple down or thru a top is much more exciting, to us. That's kinda how we do things. I recall one night we were visiting another couple out of town and they had a really classy townhouse with a very large hot tub. They asked us if we wanted to get in and we agreed. I told them I didn't bring a swimsuit and after the other woman offered to lend me one, my BF asked me how I felt about just wearing my bra and panty as the suit. After a few minutes I just stripped to the underwear. The bikini bottoms were simple old fashioned white silk and the bra was kinda white and was all elastic; however the material was one of those Victoria Secrets bras that are almost like wearing 'no bra'. Even when dry you could get a glimple of my darkish large nipple thru the cup of the bra. MY BF asked me several times if I was really going to wear my underwear to a public pool and I of course casually agreed. While still at the home the other couple didn't say a word but I got the feeling the other woman was slightly pissed as she looked like a nun in her suit. We walked to the tub and all got in. As soon as I got soaked it became really obviously looking that the bra became literally almost invisible allowing you to see the entire nipple but all of the untanned skin around them. Then to our surprise about 10-12 others came to the tub. At first I don't think anyone could see how exposed I was so they didn't take notice. Then my BF asked my if I would like to go to the sauna which had a large glass front. In we went and my BF again asked me if how I was exposed bothered me. When I said no problem he then reached up and pulled the front of the bra down below each boob to completetely expose both h breasts completely with anyone able to see my exppsure. At that point I really didn't care. Finally he teased me about actually pulling dwn my panties bu didn't .

[AnonAnon]

PB, demented? There are exhibitionists everywhere. What is harder to find is people who will do it with some taste. Of course, what is tasteful to one might not be to another.

Despite the fact that it is no big deal there, my wife and I do enjoy the mixed nudity in some European hotel saunas. In many ways, it is quite relaxing to be naked in front of others. Lets the inhibitions go and provides a relaxing start to a vacation.

While most might consider wearing something revealing in front of strangers easier, we think of the most daring as wearing something revealing in front of people we have never met, but are going to meet for the first time. The reactions are unknown, which adds an element of excitement and risk. Most times, predictably, she hits it off, but from time to time we get the impression that the hostess didn't like it, because we don't get any other invitations. On one such occasion, my wife had worn a black top that was very see through, tight around the shoulders and neck, but fanning out at armpit level with some pleats. The pleats and looseness made it less see through to the point where you could see the outline of her breasts, but the nipples were visible only rarely when the brushed hard up against the fabric. We had expected the venue to be dark, but it was lit and the light punched right through the top. My wife remained at ease all evening, but the exposure was really too great. A friend of our's sent us a picture later and the image showed even her belly button straight through the top. This coupled with the skin-tight pants and heels probably made her come off a bit trashy. We never got another invitation.

[Thinker]

You did not get another invitation, but you did get a souvenir of the night.

[AnonAnon]

Thinker, we did, and I still have that image. It was also exciting knowing that someone we knew had noticed my wife's outfit, taken an image he knew would be revealing and sent it back to her. When I asked my wife how she felt about this person having an image of her, she said that she'd be fine with him using it for "his personal pleasure".

[PB4U]

I wrote about a night out on June 15th when we went out for Halloween and as the night went on, I slowly began to take off more clothes and then start cutting my tee shirt to shreds. Fortunately, someone did take a polaroid picture of me that night and my BF still has it. Looking back, it's hard to believe that I actually wound up near nude, but very slightly covered in a public club that night. It was a fun night and a couple of nights later we were out also for Halloween and surprisingly I wore the same basic outfit. This time since we were in a place where everyone knew us, as I began to cut up my tee shirt, my BF talked me out of it as he didn't feel the time and place were right. That's just his style. ......P

[AnonAnon]

PB, that's a sexy story. Most of the barriers against wearing revealing clothing are in the mind. Once you get over those, it is amazing what you can get away with. I've never discouraged my wife from wearing whatever she wants. She does like to test my boundaries from time to time, however. So far, I have not indicated any limits that she has been able to cross.

A few years ago, she wore a very short dress with buttons down the front to a house party. No underwear. Part way through she decided to come sit on my knees facing me for a bit. I realized that I was getting quite a view and that that view wasn't totally private. When I remarked on that to her, she asked if I wanted her to turn around. I told her it was up to her so she did, but ended up sitting on one leg, her dress tantalizingly close to being up too high. I recall a very revealed inner thigh very prominently in my field of view. Sometime later, we were dancing and there was a guy taking photos from a low angle. She danced right over his camera and shouted, "Don't put it on the internet if you can see my face in it." Her face didn't show, and the guy did have it up for quite a while. I doubt too many at the party didn't check it out.

[PB4U]

anon, your lady does seem very similar to me but I think she is even more daring than I really am, but close. The club we were in that night was a late night club that catered to lots of bar works, gays, and lesbians. The first thing he pointed out to me was a good looking girl wrapped in totally clear suran wrap off one should with one breast completely exposed. I think I got jealous cause I knew that he was really into her. At one point I thought I was going to have to fight the girl but my bf broke it up. I don't know if this is how it happens for you two, but I have been in public places or large parties naked or nearly naked or wearing something really exposing, yet for some reason no on tends to do or say anything. I think they are just stunned. Also as I said earlier, I have only gone out once without panties even though he as suggested it many times.

This is a story that actually happened one night. It was getting late and while riding by a friends club we noticed he was closed and in there by himself. We knocked on the door and went in. I was wearing a thick summer white sweater, jeans and tennis shoes....nothing close to wild. Neither of us really like the guy there but for some really crazy reason I told my bf that it was really hot in there. He was going to the mens room and asked me not to do anything. When he came back I was sitting at the bar having a drink with the other guy and I had completely taken off my sweater leaving me completely topless. My bf acted really shocked by I knew he loved what I had daringly done. After a while he teased my about my being topless in front of the other guy and I acted very uncaring and comfortable. With that he stood me up, undid my jeans and pulled both my jeans and panties down to the ankles. The guy actually tried to enter me from the rear but either he was too big or the angle was not right. Suddenly my bf asked me if I was ready to leave and we just left with the other guy standing therer in frustration. I don't s exciting, but it was for us.......P

[AnonAnon]

PB, my wife has a single standard for how she dresses. She doesn't really do anything in front of strangers that she wouldn't in front of those we know and regard as friends. So, saran wrap, nudity and the like are totally off the table. I prefer her to have a daring clothing style rather than for her to have excessively daring behavior. The most public exposure I've seen her do was to wear a mesh top with islands of embroidery on it to a movie screening at a large local park. The embroidery hid neither her nipples nor the curve of her breasts and hundreds, if not thousands, would have seen them. We met a dozen of our friends for a picnic and while we were sitting down on the blanket, everyone got all the views they wanted. None of our friends posted a nipple photo online, but many photos with her nipples just hidden by a head or hand showed up.

Many years before I met my wife, I dated a girl that I discovered was not faithful to me. I was too young to end the relationship immediately and went a few months where I knew she was sleeping with another guy as well. I found some aspects of this exciting, but never did like her personality. There wasn't the confidence I like to see in people.

[PB4U]

Anon, I really do love hearing from you because we are so similar, yet quite different. As I said before, lots of the rections are determined by the style in which we do something. I can't really understand it, but at times I have been almost naked yet no one seemed to react. I wonder if they just don't expect this from me.

That reminds me on a night we went out of town and as we were getting reading to go out, I actually chose to wear a white silk blouse that buttoned up the back to the neck. There were a few pleats in the front so the exposure was not quite a s blatant but enough. When my bF saw that I have worn the blouse without any bra or camisole, he was kinda shocked and asked me to please consider putting on a nice white low cut camisole which was a hair too big. I then put on the blouse and a fine dinner jacket over it all. As we were about to go out, he asked me teasingly if I really would have worn the blouse without anything under it. When I said yes, he lifted the front of the blouse and simply slid down the front of my bra so it came well below each nipples. He then took some dark mascara and enlarged the nipples about twice as normal and thus they really contrasted. As we left he asked me if I was OK but he handed me a fine jacket to wear over it all.

The first place we went was an average kinda college dance club that seemed boring. A young fellow aksed me to dance so I said yes. Before we danced and slipped off the jacket and handed it to my bf, who was loving it. When the young guy came to notice my exposure he was really shocked and could say nothing. He took me for a drink but kept well in front of me almost as if to hide me. We then returned to our table. My Bf asked me if I wanted to take him home with us but I declined..

We then went to a late nite place that had lots of gays lesibians, and strippers. ONe girl asked me dance and as we did she kept telling mehow great my boobs looked and how it was a pitty to hide them. With that I could feel her slowly undoing the back buttons and w stop her, I felt the last one undo. She then slipped the last button off and literally remove the blouse completely leaving bra which coverered nothing. danced iought nothing. .P

[AnonAnon]

PB, thank you. I enjoy your responses as well. I think you're spot on with the style comment. I think if a woman is someone people find attractive, stylish and confident, they will find a way to appreciate what she's doing even if they're not absolutely comfortable with it. When my wife gets compliments on her daring attire, they tend to be very positive, even if indirect, so we're pretty sure that she's hitting the right notes most of the time.

Your story with the young guy is great. My wife has a red tunic top that she often wears braless. The top itself is fairly thin material, but the color and brightness keeps her areolae hidden until you get close and then you can see the color clearly. The top itself has panels that allow it to contour to the body tightly and impart a harsh geometry that keeps the nipples from being very obvious dark circles on plain red, but it doesn't conceal anything at all. My wife will wear this top walking with me in the neighborhood and while it is amusing to come up on younger men who haven't figured out how to control themselves, what we enjoy most is when we bump into a bunch of people who behave normally even though it unlikely they aren't enjoying the show. Why should it be different from just enjoying a beautiful woman?

[PB4U]

thanks Anon, I think back to that night and can't believe I really went out looking that way as well as just letting the girl I was dancing with unbutton the blouse and slip it completely off me. I can remember her telling me that it was just not right to keep such pretty nipples even close to covered. You can't imagine how it must have looked with me dancing without my shirt and wearing a bra that my BF had pulled down below each nipple, sort of like a shelf look.

The young guy I mentioned was a guy I danced with at the first club we went to and he about dropped his teeth when he first saw how I was dressed. I think he was really embarrassed as he walked in front of me to sort of hide my exposure.

Anyway, the bar was a mixed crowd of gay/straights and lots of guys didn't have their shirts on either.

thanks, .......P

[AnonAnon]

PB, that is a hot story and I bet you felt pretty good being able to out-confidence the guy. My wife loves to try and do this to me to try and get a reaction out of me. I kind of enjoy it when she succeeds. The slight embarrassment combined with arousal makes for a heady mix.

[nadia]

Hi and thank you for sharing your experiences. I am glad that I came across this site. We recently moved to U.S. from Iran. My husband really enjoys me doing these types of things and we have had fun since we moved doing these activities. I don't know if anyone is still active on this thread. But if you are, just let me know and I will tell you about when my husband took me to do an amateur night contest at a club called Deja Vu in U.S.

[Superone]

Nadia, we are all waiting to hear the story! Lets see a frontal viwe of you?

[nadia]

Thanks for the encouragement Superone! OK, I'll give my first post a try....

So we wanted to try something exciting and adventurous once we finally made it to the States. Entering a strip contest was something that I'd always wanted to try and we've talked about it but have never been anywhere close to an opportunity.

In Iraq, we did not have strip clubs in the open or anything close to an amateur contest. So we had to figure out how to do this ourselves through trial and error. After settling into our new apartment, my husband and me started looking for the perfect place for me to try a strip contest. We wanted to do this in a different city from where we had moved into because my husband has mostly male co-workers who may be in the places near home. We emailed and called club after club but it was VERY difficult to find a club that has "amateur night" and almost impossible to find a place that has it on the weekend.

We finally found a good club (that was a chain) in a college town. We spoke to the manager and read reviews of people who had been there. Based on the good feedback and the friendly manager, we decided on it! I was very nervous and had a whirly stomach once we actually found a place. We picked a date that was about a month forward. They only had the contest on a weekday so we had to plan the trip properly. The manager gave us some tips like I should bring my own music with 3 songs, what to wear, etc.

On the night of the contest, we arrived at the club one hour early. I was too nervous and asked my husband to go inside to check it out first. He checked it out and said it looked nice, the crowd looked decent and safe. The first thing that I wanted to do was to get a martini to calm me down. We quickly found out that they did not have alcohol! We were very surprised to see this in the U.S. I told my husband that I was too nervous and we went to a nearby bar to get drinks first. I finished my martini in 15 minutes! I was so nervous. But at the same time, I was excited about the feeling of having so many men that did not know me stare at my body. It made me very excited.

After getting inside the club, they sat us in an area for couples but we were the only couple there. There was about 15 mins left for the contest and they announced that they may not have enough entries and may cancel it. The crowd booed. We just sat, waited and watched the pro dancers. I was amazed seeing all of the acrobatic tricks and moves on the steel rod.

The DJ finally announced that they had enough ladies signed in to have the contest. Myself and two other girls waited around the DJ area and then a waitress led us to a dressing room where the pro girls got ready. I did not know that we would have a place to get ready so I came already dressed with my "outfit" on under my coat.

OK, this is getting too long. I'll post the rest tomorrow if folks are interested.

[Superone]

We are waiting for the rest!

[Thinker]

Please post the follow-up. Cannot wait to hear how it turned out.