[TN2Willy]

My wife wants us to take a cruise. I'm not interested in being
stuck on a ship, living in a tiny cabin and having to follow her
around checking out every little thing.
I'd rather find the pool bar and watch and hope for pretty
ladies to watch.
I told her if I go with her I pick the clothes she wears. Dresses
only and no panties on the trip. She said OK to that.
Now, I hear it's always windy on cruise ships. She will not
wear dresses much above her knees. I would like to buy some dresses
are very light and are likely to be easily lifted by the wind to
show off the fact that she is naked and shaved. Besides exposing
her to the people on board I hope the looks she gets will make
her want to loosen up some more. Any ideas?

[DangerousDi]

Okay there is so much I have to say. First off ships are never dull, and who sits in their room when you can sit on the deck and get a tan, or a better tan? There is always something going on from contests, and when out at sea they have lots of things to do.

I don't know your age, some cruises we have gone they were all old people and only a couple people our age (my husband had turned 30 and that was his present - a cruise that I paid for) Hawaii, at that time young people must of not been able to afford cruising. Been on ones that are family orientated and you have lots of kids around. However, the events draw mostly adults, as the kids are shows, doing crafts, play area where they stay. etc.

My husband tried that on me, on a romantic trip to Canada one time, and then decided not to pick out my clothes but ask me to bring sexy clothes (COMMUNICATION). Well it was Valentine's that time and we went to eat in the fancy resturant in the hotel. The bar area was full and I was the only one dressed up and nice on Valentine's, and wow did I get the looks from the men, but women too. However, I chose what I wanted. To describe it - sheer see through pants. A long jacket that covered just after the butt. It had seer arms to match the pants, and the body of the jacket was not see through, but buttoned up and was lower cut. You get the idea, and yes it fit the body. However, I picked it out. That was the first time i decided for my husband to take pictures of me. We went back to the room and I put on this tiny white outfit and we took pictures. The only pictures that one that show I had a bush.

I would recommend you go online to ebay and put in the search sexy dresses or club dresses and show her what you consider sexy. That will open her to agree or disagree, as me always want their gal in tiny form fitting dress and we know what looks better on our bodies.

Option would be a long sun dress that opens up and she could open it up here and there as much as she wanted.

TIP: you didn't mention you take pictures - the bar's are closed in certain areas during the day, but open to walk into which no one is there and you could take pictures of her there. Unbutton the dress and there ya go.

Communicate more and more with her and share, don't sound like you are the controller. She will come around if she was willing to go without any under garments even more if you work with her. That is how my husband got where we are. Hell yes I would wear a short dress and no panties.

Let us know how this process goes. Good luck.

[VWSupport]

DangerousDi has great suggestions, I would add not to worry about the tiny cabin part...walking in after a few drinks and seeing as how the bed takes up most of the entire room, you tend to have zero distractions and much more sex. I am curious to know which cruise line/destination you were thinking? Going to Alaska might not be the best idea, but cruising the Caribbean means she will want to wear the least amount possible in the heat.

[TN2Willy]

Well now, She is talking about a cruise in the gulf of Mexico, probably
to Mexico and back. Any suggestions? Again I will not be able to get her
to wear any thing too short but if I can find four or five dresses that are
a little above the knee I'm sure she will go along. I do not know how
to find things that are vulnerable to wind. I have tried the idea of
typing in sexy dresses but every thing is way too daring to get her to
wear. I'm thinking light cotton sun dresses but I'm not having any
luck finding what I need.

[Lace69]

Plenty of things todo within the ship( out of the wind). A lot of shows, gamble, dinner, etc. There are also plenty of places to flash in the ship, bars, dance floor, etc.

And don't forget, you can head out on excursions.

[DangerousDi]

Rayon dresses are my favorite because they feel like you have nothing on and I live in one of the windy states, and can tell you they flow.
I would say search sexy cover ups in rayon. Rather than dresses, and you shoudl find something sexy that will flow and short enough. A dress just might not caputre that other wise.

[DangerousDi]

Okay I just went on ebay. Do this search sexy cover up and you will find many that look like dresses are sexy and short enough to have the wind blow them up. Good luck, but be sure you show her your idea of a dress. You seem to be very controling when you don't include her.

[TN2Willy]

Thank you for the tips. I'll see what I can find and then have her help me pick the best ones.

[VWSupport]

That sounds perfect TN2Willy, and once she picks the dresses out we would love to see a few photos of her in them if she is okay with that

[DangerousDi]

When is the trip?

[TN2Willy]

We are thinking this coming fall. Maybe Oct. Not sure
about the weather in the fall. Is that hurricane season?
Still researching destinations. Most likely all of the trip
we will stay on the ship. Any ideas?
Still have not found the dresses I'm looking for but I'll
keep looking!
If I find some is there a way to attach pics to this post?

[VWSupport]

In order to attach a photo just click on the "Upload attachment" tab right below the save draft, preview, and submit buttons. Choose your file and click "Add the file." Let me know if you need anymore help on this!

[TheEyes]

I speak as an expert at women flashing in skirts and since I am single it's a constant turn on for most everyone I date. Here's the trick and it's amazingly effective. Get her to sit directly in front of a mirror. Most women don't know exactly how much is just enough and how much is way too much. And, ladies get really turned on watching themselves... as it gives them confidence in exactly what to do.

Here's something I love to do... as do most of my friends. Separately walk into somewhere nice. Put a table of men between you two... and call her on the phone and tell her everything you see.

[DangerousDi]

You could just add the link. Or copy and paste. Click on the right side of your mouse and save, then you can put it any where, just paste. I don't know if it works on the boards, haven't tried it. However the email addy since it is lingerie is a good idea.

[TN2Willy]

Just thought I'd add a pic while I was checking in.

[TN2Willy]

Still no luck finding what I want. I want some dresses for
her that will act like this on the trip.

[TN2Willy]

Or maybe like this.

[DangerousDi]

Have you found any dresses yet?

[DangerousDi]

Okay here is what I see from the last picture, it was maybe pinned up, as if the wind was blowing that hard to push the dress up perfectly, her hair would have been blowing in the wind too. Look at the picture again instead of just her leggs and butt.

As for the dress I am telling rayon likes to move a lot. I am sorry you are not finding what you want. However, a dress like the black one is flowy one. Dresses can be hard to find unless you want skin tight. Sorry you having such a time. Are you trying to find it and then ask her if she likes it? Because maybe she would be looking for the perfect dress and show it to you and you say yes that is it and you buy it for her. It seems to be "I" all the time. Unless you want to surprise her, however you have talked to her it appeared. Sammy's dresses are usually tight ones but you might find something there and they are really inexpensive. Not sure they are made for her size, but worth checking out. I don't know the link but put that in your search and it will come up.

Keep looking on ebay you will find something finally, some times it just takes the looking to finally find it. I once got a dress that could be worn several ways. It had an upside v is the best way I can explain it. Strapless and you would wear it front, back, or as a skirt. The front was high enough if you just pulled it up you could see some pussy. Just depended on how you wanted to wear it. It was under clubing however, now I look and all I see is tigh dress, and yes it was body fitting but wasn't like the new styles.

[DangerousDi]

I forgot to mention, if there is a hurricane in the tack of the route the ship goes, the ship just goes to another island or stop. So don't worry about hurricanes, they will keep you save. Okay yes things have happened to shipped, but normally they keep you safe. We went in October at least once and they had to revise the route.

[TN2Willy]

Well so far "I" have been doing the looking. It's kind of what
we agreed to. I would go on the trip and do the things she wants
to do. I get to pick the clothes. Sure not having the kind of
luck I thought I would.

[DangerousDi]

Tell me what her style you are looking for and maybe I can look and help you out.

[TN2Willy]

I am looking for dresses like this but not cut so low in front.
They should be very light and breezy.

[DangerousDi]

I have looked at quit a few sites and I can't find anything cute, if it is it $$$. Ghee I guess you best luck would be go look at the mall and see if you can find something? I know your wife isn't a size 7, but remember junior stores carry some larger sizes too. Good luck, I think you took on a hard challenge.

http://www.ralphlauren.com/product/inde ... mpaign=CSE" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
http://www.ebay.com/sch/i.html?_sacat=0 ... ress&rt=nc" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
http://www.ebay.com/itm/DONNA-KARAN-Wom ... 27cb076ca2" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
http://www.ebay.com/itm/DUE-PER-DUE-V-N ... 484a4a40f0" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;


http://www.amiclubwear.com/clothing-dre ... black.html" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
http://www.amiclubwear.com/clothing-dre ... 0jade.html" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
http://www.sammydress.com/product269576.html" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
http://www.sammydress.com/product218036.html" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

Most of those I wouldn't wear but a couple site you can check out.

[TN2Willy]

It's harder than it sounds! Hope someone can come up with some
ideas.

[DangerousDi]

I know what you mean and seems anything you want you can't find. Then watch next year they will be every where. Last year I was helping my sil look for a cream colored dress to wear to her daughter's wedding and she looked eveyr where and finally found one. It was so hard I couldn't believe it to find a simple dress. Now I see them at Wet Seal. Go figure.

Then my MIL wanted a dress for the wedding and she couldn't find anything. They hardly make dresses unless you want spaghetti strapped in the summer. Just strange how hard dresses are to find. Maybe because the trend of dresses change so much, or maybe gals don't wear as many. Who knows.

[DangerousDi]

Did you ever find anything? I was just looking at Sarongs, and you can get a bucklet for them and tie it in the front of the bust, or you can wrap it and tie it in the back if the sarong is big. It can be tied end to the center where one would have just wrapped it around, then the front ruffles down. She could wear a shear one, or one that isn't and the wind sure will catch it and could fly open or fly up. She can double it over to make it short. Lots of them on ebay.

Did you go on the trip already?