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Wives and girlfriends, help me out.

My wife has a Lelo vibrator that gets a fair amount of use, on her own and when we are playing in bed together.

Her favorite fantasy is a MFM scenario. She talks through it several times a month while we have sex, when getting me off (handjob and BJ) and when she gets off (with my help). She likes sucking my cock and fucking herself with the Lelo from time to time as well.

I am thinking that she might like a realistic dildo that she can suck while we have sex or that she or I can use inside her while she sucks my cock.

In other words, I think she might like taking a step up to the dildo from the Lelo for a more realistic fantasy experience.

I bought her the Lelo and surprised her with it one night. She loves it. There were no hesitations.

Should I do the same with a realistic dildo?

Advice desired.

Sounds like she up to about anything new. Doesn't hesitate, I think she would enjoy.

I know you are looking for input from the ladies, but if you don't mind, I'd like to put my 2 cents worth in also...

It sounds like you should 'surprise' your wife with a 'realistic dildo'. From what you have told us, I doubt she'd be upset in any way. But I'd like to caution you not to get your hopes up. Firstly, and speaking from experience with my wife, a toy is a toy and a cock is a cock...and they do and should feel different. Your wife might like using a vibrator because it's a vibrator, not because it's a substitute penis. It's just like a blow job should feel like a blow job, not someone's mouth trying to feel like a vagina, and a hand job should feel like a hand job, not someone's hand trying to emulate a pussy. If you get her a realistic dildo, she might like it, or she might not...but she might always think of it as a toy and not a stepping stone to a rel cock. Also, whether she likes it or not should not be an indication that she is either inclined or not inclined to consider engaging in a threesome. Her feelings on that may be totally different from her response to the realistic dildo. The bottom line is that you should not gauge her willingness to give a threesome a try based on her reaction to the realistic dildo. It sounds like you would have very little to loose in buying her one, so you should go ahead. I'm just not sure if you have any thing to gain by this, other than the possibility of using this as a conversation starter to explore this issue more thoroughly with her.

Just my 2 cents...

Good luck...

They have kits you can buy to make a replica of your own package did you know?

Look on line or a good adult store.

If I have to dip my package in hot wax, count me out!!!!

Thinker and I would what man would have a hard one while dipping it in hot wax. LOL Just being nervous would shrink it wouldn't it?

I know exactly what Manda is talking about, they are not hot wax molds, but a mix of a seaweed based gel that hardens like jello. While I haven't done it, I have a friend or two who have had their lady parts immortalized that way. (They turned out well I might add...)

You can probably find 'em in any good sex novelty store like Fairvilla or online. Heck, Amazon probably has 'em too.....

In this day of digital imaging and printing, the mind just boggles at the possibilities......

I may have to research this some more, anyone want to volunteer???

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