- Tue Jul 09, 2013 11:34 am
#27004
Daisy, I wanted to chime in to defend you since it seems a lot of the COFF gang has turned on you. I am glad you spoke up. Just because a girl wants a good score on her posting does not mean she is in it for the money. I get SO tired of hearing that. And being competitive is not wrong. Each girl posts for her own reasons. To some girls, a high score means that you succeeded in putting out a post that connected with most people. There is nothing wrong with that. If other girls post for fun only, that is OK also. But its not fun when you see scores being manipulated and there is no reasoning for it, and everyone should be concerned that things are not always handled right. Many girls have quit posting on this or other sites because of voting inconsistencies (whatever the cause), or have quit posting as much as they used to. And we all lose when girls quit posting for any reason. If you post for fun and don't care about scores, great, but it is discouraging when people pile on the girls that do get frustrated by this, or bad comments, or anything else that sometimes happens in an imperfect world.
Di, I don't want to start a fight with you, but I would be ticked off if you called me vain just because I cared about doing well with my posts. That is insulting. Every girl that posts on here is special, and when they have concerns insulting them for it is not the best approach. Sometimes they are on the wrong path or too worked up about something, and talking them through it is the most help. I assume you have posted pictures before and know what its like to experience some of these things.
The bottom line is that every amateur woman who posts her picture on here spends their own money on equipment, hotel rooms, lingerie and outfits, and they also take the risks on being seen by someone they know or being caught naked in public. They provide all of that to us all for free. In my case, I used to love getting good votes when I posted a lot, but its the comments that I enjoyed the most. We all have something that drives us. If girls are lucky enough to win some prize money, it doesn't cover their expenses in most instances. If they didn't want to do it primarily because they enjoy it or have fun with it, they wouldn't do it at all. The votes, comments, and prizes are just fun extras for those who like them. Being treated fairly and cordially in the process is just showing ladies respect for their efforts.
Now I will shut up and go away!!!