[sabre85rdj]

My wife is past menopause and has lost most interest in sex since it's uncomfortable for her as she's dry. I, on the other hand, still have a sex drive. We used to go out and do things together but have since got distracted with normal day to day activities. We've kind of lost the ability to date and get each other excited. I'm looking for some creative ideas on how to rekindle that old spark. Going out to dinner and a movie doesn't end like it use to with some hot and heavy sex in the car or on the side of a country road. I'd appreciate some suggestions.

[Merlin52]

There is much here that has to do with what she has to say about it. If it were just dry, there are lubricants. If she just doesn't want to, you need to find out why that is.