- Fri Sep 23, 2016 10:04 am
#77438
When ever a woman mentions that she is thinking about posing nude, there is always someone to say "Don't do it", "He will show it to all his friends", or "It will end up all over the internet". With those things still echoing in her ears, hints may not be taken well. I have a close friend who poses for me sometimes, yet every time she feels the need to ask me not to show them to anyone, which I wouldn't do of course. I think there are many women who would like to pose, but the fear of how people are going to act is the issue.
For me, bringing up the topic is usually showing off previous work. The ones that I have permission to show, not the private pictures, those are usually only for a husband/boyfriend. More detail about posing or what it is like is discussed when she shows interest. My reputation is part of what gets me models. There are often pictures that get deleted, or those that are private and end up in archive. Some may only be shown in a certain context. Some are anonymous.
There are many ways to make someone uncomfortable. Everything varies from person to person, but I have seen even a Playmate be self conscious. I have seen husbands pushing their wives in to shoots, it never works out well. Off comments during a shoot can be an issue. Too many remarks, or someone getting over excited by the idea can put someone off. Just being cool about it is usually the best way.