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By honora
#44669
I have been recently and I highly recommend going there! It is what you would expect of a resort of this type: relaxing with the ever present sexual tension hanging in the air. The thing about Desire is that when the timing works and the people are right, the relaxing atmosphere gets turned on its head and becomes downright erotic and even lustful. But first let's talk about the resort itself.

The overall look is very tropical and high class. You are welcomed into a serene foyer and greeted by the staff. The resort representative gives you the rules, layout and itinerary. You walk out into the courtyard and notice a nice bar on the left where you are handed the drink of your choice (all inclusive, including any alcoholic drinks). Then you are escorted to your room, which in our case wasn't the most spacious but it worked (we got the Garden view). The room itself was good, but the bathroom was really small.

The beach is beautiful. There are about 20 canopy beds right on the shore, and we were able to nap in them a few days. You have to sign up for one though (no charge), and it is first come first serve, so I got up early those days to get one. Well worth it.

The pool is very nice and always the center of the activity during the day. Guests lounge about mostly during the morning and early afternoon, and the staff does a good job at engaging the crowd in fun game every few hours. Beach volleyball was fun, and you can wear as little or as much as you like. In fact, the overall service of the staff was excellent. Very attentive and courteous.

The food was surprisingly very well done; we ate everything from the breakfast to dinner buffets to the 4 on site restaurants. You have to make reservations the day of, if you want to eat at a restaurant. The quality was top notch and better than we anticipated with it being an all inclusive resort.

The people you run into are what makes it pretty amazing. You find a wide variety of couples from those that are nudists, to couples who are very interested in sexual play with others, to couples that stay fully clothed and are there because it is adult only. Some people we met were curious about swinging and were there to possibly explore for the first time. The one thing we noticed was that everyone was very friendly and respectful, no matter who we talked to. No expectations or insinuations were projected on us. It was overall a very fun and laid back environment, which is what we were hoping for.

The hot tub is located up on a roof top overlooking the pool/beach but in the late afternoon to late evening is definitely where the party is at. It is fairly large and C-shaped and you can swim right up to one side of the tiki bar which is nice. Again you will find people in various stages of dress (mostly undress). We would go there before dinner for a little while, and that was where great conversations were had. After dinner it was off to get ready for the themed party that night! Every night was a different theme, and about half of the people we noticed would dress up, but it's fine either way. The club itself is rather small, and interestingly there is a unisex restroom. Tucked away into a corner is a door that opens to a very dim lit room called the Sin Room, where couples can play. It was a narrow room and very dark, but you could hear better than you could see! A sex swing and comfortable beds/couches adorned the sin room ;)

We would then go back to the room or straight to the spa upstairs where most of the crowd seemed to gather. Lots of fun and you can take it as far as you would like. There is row of canopy beds on the other side of the spa where you will usually find some action going on, especially late at night. Note: (no sexual play on the beach or pool area)

There are many more details but this is the overview - I haven't been to any other resort of this type so I cannot compare. But it was well worth the price in my opinion!
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By FastFive
#44672
Sounds, and looks, gorgeous! Not a bad way to spend a week at all...
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By honora
#44695
If and when I go back there I will definitely spend at least a week. The beach and the weather were perfect. I didn't stay a whole week but found out the day I was leaving that I was going to miss the Foam Party that night. Damn I really wanted to go to that!!
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By mandadees
#44706
Oh that looks like fun, just lying on the beach drinking and reading a book! I think the foam party would be fun for us girls LOL!! :oops: :oops:
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By honora
#44710
Manda, to be completely honest the time spent on the shore with the breeze, my Kindle, and my Mojito is the very first fond memory I have of that place. Total serenity.

Then my mind wanders to the sexy flirtatious fun ;)
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By mandadees
#44712
I would so love that! Bring it on! :) I need a vaca so so bad!
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By mandadees
#44716
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oh yes! :oops:

LOL!! Now I have a goal, beachfront massages mojitos, the New York Times and Foam Night!!

Was the beach good? I love to walk in the water at the edge. it's so relaxing and feels so so good! :D
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By Thinker
#44867
Thanks for the report Honora. That resort sounds very nice. Having it "all-inclusive" would be very nice so you don't get a huge bill when you check out. Would love to go there but need to find someone who wants to go with me.
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By ndbeachcpl
#44879
Sounds nice. I just returned this afternoon from a trip to HEDO II. I went by myself, at his (my SO) suggestion. It was my first time there, and it's sort of the off season, so it made it a little less intimidating. I spent seven nights, and to keep the story short, I had a Blast. Maybe I'll try Desire for the next trip.

N.
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By mandadees
#44880
I like the full bar. I'm picky. I know good liqueur and I don't care if i'm naked, I'm not a ditz, I know when they slip me cheap liqueur. You know Thinker, you should just put it out there, I bet you know some one who would love to go with you. Just sayin'.


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By mandadees
#44881
I just had this conversation last night. Single women at a swingers resort are like unicorns, everyone says they have heard of one but never seen one. Lol! How was Hedo, I would love a longer account here or in a new thread? :D

Blast sounds yum! ?? :oops:
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By ndbeachcpl
#44942
I might start a new topic, as I don't want to hijack this one. A blast means pretty much what it sounds like, as I was one of the few 'unicorns' there. Lots of opportunities were available, and some were too nice to pass up.
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By Thinker
#45059
mandadees wrote:I like the full bar. I'm picky. I know good liqueur and I don't care if i'm naked, I'm not a ditz, I know when they slip me cheap liqueur. You know Thinker, you should just put it out there, I bet you know some one who would love to go with you. Just sayin'.

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I have put it out there but haven't found a fellow nudist (who's female!) to go with me. The ladies I know mostly don't do the nude thing.

BTW: Love your emoticon!
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By mandadees
#45168
Thinker,

I think you're over thinking the whole thing. Look at it as an adult resort. Nudism has a lot of negative images for a lot of people. I would want an upscale resort like this and I don't think I would want to feel like I was being expected to be nude. If it happens, it happens. I would start by describing it as a secluded adult vacation at the beach. look at the pictures together and read about it together. See how she responds to what is offered? Sell yourself and your funness and beachfront massages! See what happens?

I really am interested in Desire. I don't want a place that is like a cheep hotel and old and I really don't want a place where I'm groped randomly by people I don't know well. Friends and my partner yes! :) I would probably spend two months planning outfits! :lol:
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By honora
#45224
Well, I did see people there who were never nude and were not interested in sexual play with others. They liked the fact of it being literally an adult only resort, and just didn't mind seeing a few naked people here and there. Some people have been there every year because of the all inclusiveness, the food and the the secluded resort / beach itself.

Thinker, as far as sex the resort doesn't condone it on the grounds of the pool or beach. During the day we never saw anything except flirting. At night its a different story, but any play is seen in the separate room at the club or up a bunch of steps to the rooftop area. Dress is required if you make a reservation at a restaurant. I'd say give it another try, and just ease them slowly to the idea of what they might see there :mrgreen:
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By mandadees
#45332
Honora,

The more I hear the more I keep thinking about it. Most of these resorts are just not that nice. How were the meals? Was there a wide selection? Did they have a boutique?

Thinker,

I would just. Be very casual and downplay the nude aspects and focus on adult only. :D
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By mandadees
#45423
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By mandadees
#45874
OK,

Now that we have massages covered, :oops: What about diving? I'm certified and I was wondering if we could dive or snorkle nude? I have always wanted to dive nude. :oops: :oops:
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By Thinker
#45904
I am not certified but have written on the subject. I love to muff dive. ;) Anytime...anytime! :roll:

I can snorkel too. I will even put nude snorkeling on my bucket list.
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By FastFive
#45929
Thinker wrote:I am not certified but have written on the subject. I love to muff dive. ;) Anytime...anytime!
He's here all week... try the veal.
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By honora
#45991
Manda, this place was NICE otherwise I wouldn't bother with writing a report at all. I have heard that Desire Pearl is a beautiful resort too and makes sense since it is newer. As far as nude snorkeling goes, I'm not 100% sure about that. The water seemed clear enough (I did wear my bikini bottoms on the beach) but it was sectioned off I noticed by a bright floating barrier. You had plenty of place though.
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By mandadees
#46804
I'm amazed at how nice it looks there, I am so interested! I definitely want to make plans. It may take me a while but I think it will be worth it. I got some literature and there was a sail boat which made me think of diving. I think bottoms on is a good idea, I swear the things floating in the water some days just make me wrinkle my nose!

:D :D
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By honora
#46805
Manda, you are too cute :lol: Still, I would love to see your naked body snorkeling!

Here is a pic of the foyer/meeting area in the evenings, and one from University Night ;) (Group photo but not given permission to post them so I had to crop it)
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By FastFive
#46812
Redhead.... freckles... schoolgirl outfit....

Oh honora... what are you doing to me? :oops:
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By rockclimber
#46841
Adding the nerd glasses, perfect! That made the outfit Honora; perfect to a T..... No panties I presume? Of yes, they wouldn't last long.... he he.... :ugeek:
By iw298
#46874
I loved your review. My wife and I love MX all inclusive resorts, and I have been thinking of this an a more.. interesting... options. Glad to hear you had a positive view of it. :-)
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By mandadees
#47029
honora wrote:Manda, you are too cute :lol: Still, I would love to see your naked body snorkeling!

Here is a pic of the foyer/meeting area in the evenings, and one from University Night ;) (Group photo but not given permission to post them so I had to crop it)
That's a cute look on you Honora! Did they tell you the themes ahead so you could plan? I'm a planner LOL!
:D :D
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