- Wed Jul 16, 2014 5:06 am
#42671
I have been thinking about your question for a couple days now and have a couple suggestions. I have never been where you are going so I don't know what's going on there so my suggestions are to make your own fun independent from needing outside help, that way you are less likely to be disappointed. My first suggestion is to invite another couple to go with you that you know is fun, open, and likely to get naked in the hot tub. Even if no sex between couples happens, sometimes just being naked with others is a huge turn-on for my wife. Just a helpful hint though, never invite a couple where your wife thinks the other woman is more attractive than her. I'm not saying invite a hog, but if your wife feels more attractive than the other woman it will pump up her libido, especially if you keep complimenting her in private.
Second, if you can’t bring another couple, consider getting your wife an in house massage. On our 10th wedding anniversary I took my wife away to a cabin in the woods and they offered a massage package in the cabin. I scheduled it for early evening and my wife and I enjoyed a bottle of wine prior to the arrival of the masseuse. I was quite pleased to see a younger, very attractive and well-built man show up to do the massage. Mind you, the guy was very professional and never in any way did anything suggestive or touch her in any inappropriate way, but the results were still amazing. He left the room and asked my wife to disrobe and get under a sheet on the portable massage table that he had brought. My wife stripped down to her panties and complied. Once the massage began, her and the guy really hit it off and started talking and my wife became quite comfortable with him. When it came time for her to roll over on her back, between the comfort level, the wine, and a warm summer evening she decided to lose the sheet and laid there on her back with nothing but her panties on while he massaged her legs, arms, shoulders, ect. Even though her never touched her sexually, I could tell my wife was completely aroused by the exposure. When the massage was over my wife got up and never even bothered to dress and we ended up making small talk with the guy while she was topless until he left. I have no idea what the dude thought of the massage, but my wife was through the roof in arousal by the time he left. This may have been a one-time lucky shot but it was a success because I was able to take a non-sexual event and make it work out quite well for my wife.
Good Luck