[Horny47]

I would like to hear from ladies that LIKE to watch a man jack off.

In the past, I've had two girlfriends that really LOVED to watch me jack off.

But, alas, I'm married to a woman that does not masturbate, nor does she want me to.
(Even though she has almost NO sexual desire, and knows that I need it.)

So, ladies... what is it that turns you ON about watching a man jack off?? (Many details, please.)

[Horny47]

Bump

[RickyStark]

As you can see, some may, but damn few will admit it.

[luv2flash4you]

I had an older woman that lived a cross the street from me, She was in her 60's widowed and I was in my late mid 30's. She would invite me over and we would have a few beers and we would talk. Then she would ask me if I would masturbate for her. Being the young horny guy I would say sure. We would then go into her place. When we first started we would just go into her living room and she would close the drapes. I would pull my pants down or I would take them off.

Then later she started opening the drapes after I sat down on the couch, then leaving the drapes open. She one time told me to go into her bed room and take off all my clothes and walk into the living room while she stood outside. She came in her house all excited because she could see I was nude.

She really enjoyed when I would j/o on her clothes or face.

[JerryCal]

If I ever find a woman like that I will be quite generous

[kittyh711]

I LOVE to watch men jacking off...regularly visit a web site where there are videos of that very thing! I LIKE everything about it. I like men who are so horny that they want to pleasure themselves, hopefully frequently. I like it that so many men enjoy being watched while they masturbate. I like seeing all ages jerking off...young, middle aged and elderly. I like the different techniques that guys use while playing with themselves. I like the sounds they make while cumming. And especially I LOVE seeing a squirting penis. We watchers are out there...the problem is....getting us all together.

[Horny47]

If you like this one, click the "more videos" link at top-right of the box.
http://www.yuvutu.com/video/693302/tribute-to-mj-2/" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

Oh, and by the way, I enjoy seeing a squirting pussy.

[JerryCal]

Kitty, where are you? I will give you a live performance.

[AnonAnon]

My lady loves the noises and the intimacy of it, but prefers to swallow. Despite her comfort with nudity, she has not indicated a desire for me to watch her masturbate even though she does enjoy doing it in private.

[honora]

Gotta agree with Kitty, I love the sounds and things he says to me....the look on his face especially at that point of no return. The way his body tenses and convulses is pretty amazing to watch. There are many of us out there, but some women could be reluctant to admit that turns them on. It is without question hot to watch a girl masturbate, but it can be just as hot to watch a guy!

[fotoprix]

I like to masturbate to any girl outdoor. I live in valencia spain if any girl is going to come please contact me giggoolo@hotmail.com

[Thinker]

Honora, you are very interesting. I discover something new about you all of the time. Do you get much of a chance to watch men? If you had a male friend, how could he broach masturbating in front of you without you getting upset?

[HappyGal]

I like it. I want my man to feel comfortable doing anything with or in front of me. Plus I learn better technique by watching g him do himself. :lol: we like to do it at the same time, side by side...or get each other off. Some women think it is shameful or embarrassing. How to help them get through that? Write them a letter maybe? Telling how much you'd like it and what specifically you'd like to do together. Maybe women get worried that they don't know what to do to break the ice the first time. I love pleasing my man :o

[FastFive]

A woman that likes to watch would be a rare and treasured gift!

In my experience (albeit, somewhat limited.... I'm no player) penises and cum are things that women generally just aren't that into, in the visual sense. I've known women who absolutely love sex, love a dick inside them, etc etc... but really don't like the look of one, and especially don't like the "mess" of cum. That's really a bummer to me, and probably many men, because "making a mess" with cum is a visceral intense, sexual experience to us.

Something I've recently "discovered" on another forum is cum tributes... who even knew that was a thing? Apparently it is though. So yeah, there are lovely ladies to love to watch a man jack off... they're just very few and far between. :roll:

[Naddy]

A woman that likes to watwach would be a rare and treasured gift!

In my experience (albeit, somewhat limited.... I'm no player) penises and cum are things that women generally just aren't that into, in the visual sense. I've known women who absolutely love sex, love a dick inside them, etc etc... but really don't like the look of one, and especially don't like the "mess" of cum. That's really a bummer to me, and probably many men, because "making a mess" with cum is a visceral intense, sexual experience to us.

Something I've recently "discovered" on another forum is cum tributes... who even knew that was a thing? Apparently it is though. So yeah, there are lovely ladies to love to watch a man jack off... they're just very few and far between. :roll:

My wife always thought of sex as "messy". Often refused just because the mess wasn't worth it!!??

[FastFive]

My wife always thought of sex as "messy". Often refused just because the mess wasn't worth it!!??

I know that excuse... :roll:

Admittedly, there are certain times when sex should be tidy & quiet... like when you're camping with friends and family and the kids are in a tent not four feet away from your own. But that's the exception, not the rule. :twisted:

[Horny47]

HappyGal, I'm sure that you must have a happy man.

What you describe is what I like to do. And, even now, my wife occasionally likes mutual masturbation (mostly as foreplay, but sometimes as the "main course"). But, she does not like to masturbate, and she does not like to watch me do it. (She thinks that it's a "sin". I've studied the Bible more than most people, and I do not see that in there anywhere. For example, an informed read of the Song of Solomon contains several allegorical references to blow jobs, pussy eating, 69, "necklace of pearls", etc., and they are all "approved" actiivites.)

Because my wife thinks that masturbation is a "sin", I must keep all of my porn activites secret from her. I don't like doing that. But, she only thinks about sex a few times per year, and even then it is mostly only for my sake. She does not need sex, as I do, and she seems to not understand how intense my need is (even in my mid-50s).

To me, the simple solution is for her to give me permission to have occasional sex with a trusted mutual friend. (I don't want do the truly "casual sex" thing with a stranger, although that temptation gets me now and then.) King David had 300 wives and 700 concubines, and yet he was "a man after God's own heart". I simply want one woman, or maybe two, with whom I can have real sex and also know that I'm satisfying her sexual need -- versus merely an obligatory duty three times a year, "whether I need it or not" [dripping sarcasm intended].)

I knew when starting this thread that it would spark a variety of replies. That's a good thing. One on level, sex is a form of communication. So, it's good to communicate about sex.

[Shardog]

wow, how great would it be if women, not all, but most liked to watch as much as guys do.

[honora]

I have watched a guy masturbate in front of me many times, now I will sometimes initiate it but it is after I have gotten to know them well and know what turns them on. The first time it happened with my bf, I was taking my clothes off in front of him, just being playful about it when asked if I would mind if he jacked off watching me. Of course I didn't mind, in fact it made the experience even better! He seemed to have a slight surprised look with my enthusiastic reply lol! As I stripped, and danced a little and touched myself, he was telling me all the things he was going to do to me, and I would talk back to him until he finally came for me. So, if you are going to bring up the subject to a woman, during foreplay would be easier than any other time.

On one very strange occasion, my gf's and I were driving home pretty late one night. We were on the highway and I was in the backseat. Out of the corner of my eye I noticed this car was right next to us for awhile and when I looked over this guy had his pants down and was staring right at me, driving with one hand and his other was stroking his cock! Out of shock I told my friends who promptly let out screams of "Eww" and she sped away real fast. Now I'm not condoning anyone to do that and he might have been a dangerous person, who knows, but for some reason I can't get the look on his face out of my mind and I admit it really turns me on now when I think about it. It was a very desirous gaze. Of course he had to be very good looking with a great body lol! Maybe that's what made it seem more erotic than creepy. That happened several years ago at least but I still remember every detail...

[FastFive]

Of course he had to be very good looking with a great body lol! Maybe that's what made it seem more erotic than creepy. That happened several years ago at least but I still remember every detail...

I'm betting if he looked like this...

... you wouldn't be remembering quite so fondly. LOL :lol:

[honora]

LOL!!! Yeahhhh

[HappyGal]

Horny, sorry it took me so long to reply. My posts still take forever to be approved and I somewhat forgot all the boards I needed to monitor. It sounds like it's more than just an aversion to watching you but an outright aversion to sex. I grew up in a very strict protestant home. My birds and bees talk included words like dirty and sin. And although I don't believe it, sometimes that puritanical streak that was imparted on me does rear it's freaky head. I rebel against it wholeheartedly.

When it comes to porn, sometimes I really enjoy it. Other times, it makes me feel kinda bad like I could never be that free, that beautiful that sexy. For people like my mom, it makes them feel dirty. My theory is that they get turned on by it but the shame they were raised with is too much and they turn that shame into anger/righteous indignation.

I couldn't begin to assume that I could give any helpful advice. So I won't try. What I would say is that throughout the length of my marriage, we've had cold spells. Sometimes it was hard to break out of them. The longer we'd go without making love, the more difficult it became to cross that barrier we'd created and neither of us were willing to put ourselves out there and talk about whatever was going on. Having said that, I think it would have been incredibly sexy for my husband to right me a letter (email if it's easier) telling me why he loves to make love to me. The gentle things he'd want to do to me and how much he missed holding my body. Something about a letter....in a way it's more personal but it also gives the couple distance to hear each other out without a heated face-to-face discussion.

[HappyGal]

Also, I would add that I love the look in his eyes as he's watching me. "I'm" what's making him want to pleasure himself in that mo. Powerful.

What Honora said above - Hi Honora! - is intriguingg to me.

I heard on a radio show once about that happening - where a man was jerking off in the car/truck next to the woman and she looked over and saw it and was disgusted. I was intrigued when I heard that story

I admit it really turns me on now when I think about it.

That would turn me on too. I'd be shocked at first. Then, I'd grin from ear to ear. Yes, prerequisite: guy mustn't be scary

[mrdangerous]

HEY!! Us ugly bastards need love, too. :cry:

[honora]

Of course, love is what everyone needs

This complete stranger was like out of a fantasy; I remember how dark it was but the lights of the highway made his facial features stand out, and I could see a real toned body because his shirt was up. I guess it just made it more memorable if that makes sense? Ah well, I'm sure that will never happen again lol

[FastFive]

Ballsy (no pun intended) thing to do, really. Given that almost literally everyone has a camera on them at all times, it's a pretty risky thing to do. (Not saying that you're not worth the risk Honora... )

There's probably a half dozen things he could have been charged with were he caught. :lol:

Personally, I'll save my exhibitionist antics for a safer milieu... at the very least not putting other drivers at risk.

[Horny47]

NOW we're getting into some real communication. Thank you, HappyGal.

You and I seem to think a lot alike. I think that sex is a lot more about thinking and communication than most people realize.

That said, I used to drive a bus years ago. One time, while stuck in downtown gridlock, I looked over and saw a young woman fingering her pussy. She was not my type (too thin for me), but I was still intrigued. Oddly, though, her boyfriend was looking everywhere but at her. (The look on his face did not seem like he was being a "lookout" for her. Instead, he seemed more interested in the "bright lights and big city" than in the fact that she had one leg over the center console and two fingers up her pussy in downtown traffic. I didn't understand that. I would've been so turned on that I probably would've started masturbating with her.)

[HappyGal]

Yay, I have auto-posting now! Sorry I mentioned the thing about writing a letter twice. "Happy" is a euphemism for ditzy (among many other adjectives).

I think of myself as an exhibitionist because I like to be watched and/or to be center-stage. I wish I was a performer. But honestly haven't done much sexual exhibition - I am just starting to be willing to try more of that.

The other day riding home from XTC with a new vibe and some other toys, I tried out my new vibe on the ride home. It was very hot and I had a huge orgasm right in the car - back arching, soft moaning and everything! I don't think anyone saw but hubby was super turned on. I should have asked him to stroke himself. I didn't think of it because I was pre-occupied by the warm wind on my face and the buzzing on my clit, but I bet he did. Next time....

[Horny47]

Many years ago, I had a girlfriend that liked to watch me jack off. We went on a long drive once. Things got kinda boring the last hour or two. So, we took turns. One would masturbate in the passenger seat, the other would drive and watch. (Don't worry!! Most of the roads were rural and fairly straight, so there was no danger of a traffic accident.)

By the time we got home, she was so horny from watching me that we fucked on the back porch!!

(Ah... "those were the days". We once did it three times before leaving the house in the morning to go shopping. I'm not sure that I'd have the stamina for that now. But, I'd still like to try....)

[HappyGal]

Glad you figured out a way to make your roadtrip MUCH more exciting!

Guys do have the 'harder' job when it comes to being able to do it multiple times!

[Horny47]

She made it "easy to be hard". She once came seven times during one fuck.

Even when it was not a "mountaintop experience", she still made it well-known that she enjoyed it.
(Sometimes, the neighbors knew, too....)

[HappyGal]

Dang, seven!!! That's impressive! Good work horny

[RCNCO]

Hi Happy gal,

Eight is my personal best. But I wore my Green Lantern ring so she didn't really stand a chance...... :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

[HappyGal]

Hi RC...you two are a couple of tantric sex machines... Haha green lantern. Most Everything I know about super heroes I learned from the big bang theory. I will say it takes me about 10-20 minutes btw orgasms so to have 8 would take three hours. So much energy...and time! You guys like quickies too? There's something great about sharing a glance then sneaking away for a quick one doggy style..standing... I rub my clit while he pounds me then cums all over my back and ass. Classic

[SweetPlump]

Wow happygal, pretty hot.

[kptr11]

Great posts...I love to have a woman watch me jack off...so hot. It's also great to get "caught" masturbating...and lastly masturbating on a nude beach...mmmm catch me if you can lol

[Horny47]

HappyGal,

I really like a woman that knows what she wants and isn't afraid to say so. (A few times over the years, I've started a thread on VW about "Women that like to talk during sex" -- another favorite topic, and activity, of mine.)

I'm glad that you are not afraid to say that you like your man to shoot his cum on you. When I was young, I could do some serious cum-shooting. I used to enjoy shooting it onto my first wife. But, she waited about 15 years to tell me that she enjoyed it. By then, I'd already begun to feel quite "guilty" about it, and so didn't do it as much. (And, now, in my mid-fifties, and in the wake of a glitch during abdominal surgery, shooting cum is mostly just a memory....)

One of my favorite fantasies is to have a woman that is expressive about sex. (That, in itself, would be nice....) Then, one day, we are both really horny. But, we are also both really tired. (from yard work, or some similar activity) We agree to sit in the living room in easy chairs and both masturbate "for" the other one. (I especially enjoy this fantasy regarding my yummy-looking next-door neighbor, who has lusciously full thighs.) She dangles one leg over the arm of the chair, spreads her legs wide, and puts on a show for me while rubbing herself to orgasm.

I sit in the other chair and jack off. When the "time" comes, I stand up, go over to her chair, and shoot my cum upon her belly and tits. (or, into her mouth, if she asks me to)

Then, we go take a shower. Clean and relaxed -- from the hot shower, and from the "hot" activity before it -- we lie down and take a deep nap. Then, we wake up refreshed enough to have some "real" sex!!

:o

[HappyGal]

There are no limits to our fantasy worlds are there? I will have to think of one to share.

[rockclimber]

Hi RC...you two are a couple of tantric sex machines... Haha green lantern. Most Everything I know about super heroes I learned from the big bang theory. I will say it takes me about 10-20 minutes btw orgasms so to have 8 would take three hours. So much energy...and time! You guys like quickies too? There's something great about sharing a glance then sneaking away for a quick one doggy style..standing... I rub my clit while he pounds me then cums all over my back and ass. Classic

Made it to five the other night, four during and then asked if she could rub one more out and would I like to watch? Now who would object?

Happy, sounds like you reach your plateau and pause. Have you tried to just keep going? I like to keep the edge going even if I get the no no no no more that soon becomes a whimpering yes yes yes more.... Sometimes.... wrists need to be restrained, but I've gotten pretty good at holding two with one hand as I work my magic with the other..... Cuffs help...

Sometimes it's good to be ridden to exhaustion....... Chores and errands will always be there. Live in the moment as much as you can....



PS Six came at four AM.... He he......

[Mike1594]

I'm a little late to the party here, but the idea of multiple orgasms during sex is of great interest to me. My personal best was giving my wife two in a row during one fuck when I was drunk as fuck and for once in my life performed like a porn star. but, I have a friend who has always bragged about his longevity and ability to give women multiple orgasms. One night the wife and I were hanging out with him and having drinks when he started his bullshit bragging again. I was fun and my wife was really giving it back to him when as a joke I told my wife to either shut up or make him prove it. Sure as shit they ended up fucking right there in front of me and this dude literally went on for what seemed like a half hour before he pulled out and blew a load all over he belly but not before giving her at least four orgasms. He made me a believer and my wife sore but it was worth it. I only wish I would have thought to record the moment.