- Tue Sep 02, 2014 3:21 pm
#45627
We have talked a lot about it. I think it is something you wife has to be involved with. Not just your idea that happens so talk to her and ask what she thinks. She might want two men, where you want two women. So lots of talk about. Get it out in the open and ask. You won't ever know her thoughts on it.
My husband and I agreed it had to be a person we didn't know, that we had to agree on the same person. He wants a woman and I said I was up for that (I would rather have two men thank you). Anyway we talked and worked out the kinks and really have done no more. Several reasons, but I think just the okay made it seem less attractive to him. Not in ours 20's......
If you don't try, you don't know if you would have failed or succeed.