- Tue Jun 24, 2014 8:42 pm
#41861
Hello All,
Two weeks ago, my girlfriend, myself, and eight of our friends visited Varadero, Cuba. My girlfriend and I have a great relationship and truly do love each other.
Over our relationship of a year and three months, we have been becomming sexually more attached to eachother. However, we have never really explored some of the kinky things I joke around with her about. This all changed in Varadero two weeks ago.
Upon arriving, we started discussing what eachothers fantasies were and she was instantly ready to fulfill them, even the most of the daring (for a conservative girl - I found this surprising). My question is do I have a reason to be concerned or should I just be enjoying the ride?
Some of the things we tried for the first-time as a couple:
1. It was my idea to have sex outside on the patio as it was pretty secluded. She was hesitant at the start but agreed and we had a 10 minute session outside where she was completely exposed.
2. She claims to have never masturbated in her life and during foreplay, I got her to finger herself and play with her chest. She continually did this throughout the trip and now wants me to buy her a vibrator and dildo to add "even more excitement to the relationship". Not sure if this is something I should be concerned about. She claims to have never used toys... Ever.
3. She continuously wanted me to bust on her vagina even though she is not on birth control because she said it turns her on more.
4. We went in the water as a group one day and she almost lost her entire bathing suit. From that point forward, she wasn't really adjusting her suit and I caught her nipple out of her bathing suit on a couple occassions and appeared to be more comfortable with revealing herself. Not sure if the aggressive bedroom sessions played a role but being in a group of friends; wasn't sure if that was normal.
5. She wanted to make a video claiming it was one of her all time fantasies. This is one in our entire relationship, I have never been aware of.
6. She likes when I am agressive with her in bed but she was insistent on spanking, hair pulling, slapping. A lot more then usual.
7. She was needing it 3 - 4 times per day when on average we do it 2 - 3 times per week.
8. She has never agreed for me to finger her or pleasure her on the road. The other day when we were on the highway she wanted me to give her an orgasm because she claimed she "needed it badly".
9. On our next vacation when we are not around friends, she wants to go bathing in a thong at night as she thinks it will be exciting.
She's pretty much always needing it now a days. Not sure if it is because it was our first vacation together.
I think it is just her exploring with herself (she's 26) but also at the same time wonder if these are factors or signs of something I should be worrying about. Most of this is brought on by me as I suggested some of these. I just never thought she would actually agree.
Two weeks ago, my girlfriend, myself, and eight of our friends visited Varadero, Cuba. My girlfriend and I have a great relationship and truly do love each other.
Over our relationship of a year and three months, we have been becomming sexually more attached to eachother. However, we have never really explored some of the kinky things I joke around with her about. This all changed in Varadero two weeks ago.
Upon arriving, we started discussing what eachothers fantasies were and she was instantly ready to fulfill them, even the most of the daring (for a conservative girl - I found this surprising). My question is do I have a reason to be concerned or should I just be enjoying the ride?
Some of the things we tried for the first-time as a couple:
1. It was my idea to have sex outside on the patio as it was pretty secluded. She was hesitant at the start but agreed and we had a 10 minute session outside where she was completely exposed.
2. She claims to have never masturbated in her life and during foreplay, I got her to finger herself and play with her chest. She continually did this throughout the trip and now wants me to buy her a vibrator and dildo to add "even more excitement to the relationship". Not sure if this is something I should be concerned about. She claims to have never used toys... Ever.
3. She continuously wanted me to bust on her vagina even though she is not on birth control because she said it turns her on more.
4. We went in the water as a group one day and she almost lost her entire bathing suit. From that point forward, she wasn't really adjusting her suit and I caught her nipple out of her bathing suit on a couple occassions and appeared to be more comfortable with revealing herself. Not sure if the aggressive bedroom sessions played a role but being in a group of friends; wasn't sure if that was normal.
5. She wanted to make a video claiming it was one of her all time fantasies. This is one in our entire relationship, I have never been aware of.
6. She likes when I am agressive with her in bed but she was insistent on spanking, hair pulling, slapping. A lot more then usual.
7. She was needing it 3 - 4 times per day when on average we do it 2 - 3 times per week.
8. She has never agreed for me to finger her or pleasure her on the road. The other day when we were on the highway she wanted me to give her an orgasm because she claimed she "needed it badly".
9. On our next vacation when we are not around friends, she wants to go bathing in a thong at night as she thinks it will be exciting.
She's pretty much always needing it now a days. Not sure if it is because it was our first vacation together.
I think it is just her exploring with herself (she's 26) but also at the same time wonder if these are factors or signs of something I should be worrying about. Most of this is brought on by me as I suggested some of these. I just never thought she would actually agree.